Wednesday 23rd August 2017

Love.#LifeThisWeek 7/52. 2017.25.

Love.#LifeThisWeek 7/52. 2017.25.

I selected this prompt LOVE because of the date being close to Valentine’s Day. 14th February.

Then I have wondered ‘what is love?’ And I got many answers but in the end I have decided to take a varied approach to this prompt and instead of making only a declaration of LOVE to my husband (of course I love him) I would also post some memes and quotes I LOVE.

Valentine’s Day.

On occasion I have given my hub (and kids) cards. I have also made crafty things with classes and grandkids but my belief is that love needs to be appreciated and shown each day. I did some research though, about Valentine’s Day if you want to know more.

The rose is red, the violet’s blue,
The honey’s sweet, and so are you.
Thou art my love and I am thine;
I drew thee to my Valentine:
The lot was cast and then I drew,
And Fortune said it shou’d be you

The modern cliché Valentine’s Day poem can be found in the collection of English nursery rhymes Gammer Gurton’s Garland (1784):


I associate these with love as do many people. I liked these images. I tend to see hearts in nature and make a heart shape when I am doodling in art. Neither are my images, sadly.


I’ve been struggling with aspects of this and I am certain I am not alone. I researched some quotes and liked these ones as I saw them apply to me. By the way, self-love for me is about self-acceptance…no matter what is ‘wrong’ or not going well, so this is my learning journey!!

Love of and for  My Husband.

We talked about this earlier as I was preparing to write. I fell in love with him, and vice versa, over 46 years ago. Love HAS kept us together when many things went wrong. I have struggled to like aspects of him from time to time as he has with me, but we both agree that LOVE has never changed and it is WHY we are still (and will be until parted by death) in LOVE. This poem from many a wedding we have attended is wonderful. It was not part of our ceremony but the essence of it was.


I wish you LOVE….today and always…thank you for reading this blog, commenting and linking up too!



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Grandmothering. 366/129.

Grandmothering. 366/129.

It’s Mother’s Day today.

If you celebrate, then Happy Mother’s Day!

I’m honouring the role of grandmother today.

I love being a grandmother and it is truly a blessing to be loved by your grandchildren and to share their lives at the various stages. But today is not about me as a grandmother.

I had two grandmothers.

One, on my mum’s side, Nanny, was a hard working woman who had the responsibility of not only raising her own 3 children but two of her brother when his wife sadly died in childbirth with number 3. I remember Nanny as strict and I was never spoiled. She left that to my Papa, her husband. She was never happy but I also understand why due to her workload at home with 3 boys and 2 girls. Recently I have started researching family history and know she was one of 13 who grew up in a farming family on the NSW South Coast and Southern Highlands. I remember her being very unwell for 2 years before her early death of a stroke at 62 in 1958.

One of the few photos of Nanny - in the 1940s.

One of the few photos of Nanny – in the 1940s.

The second grandmother, Gran, was my father’s mother. She was distant and certainly not particularly affectionate but I recall her letting me have a 3d ice-cream from the local shop once! Gran had a great start to life born into an English almost middle class family sharing her parents with one sibling. The war of 1914-18 brought her love, and to Australia as a war bride, then her life changed over a decade to being parent of 4 children in a tough economic time in Australia. Her husband, my grandfather, survived the first world war but was fatally injured in a workplace accident in 1935. She never got over the loss and it clouded all of her relationships it seemed. Gran lived into her 80s dying in 1985.

I'm in Dad's arms at my christening in 1950, Gran is on the left of the photo and her mum, my great grandmother is on the right.

I’m in Dad’s arms at my christening in 1950, Gran is on the left of the photo and her mum, my great grandmother is on the right.

I watched my mum as a grandmother and I know she struck a pretty good balance as both a ‘spoiler’ and a ‘loving carer’. I had my first daughter at 21 and I know Mum got a lot of joy helping out with her when we came to Sydney and even had her stay as a bub for a week once. I was always grateful for how my mum helped me out…but the icing on the cake was that she got to do so much for her grandkids. Mum and Dad often had our kids stay and took them on holidays.

A few years ago, blogging friend and writer, Kelly Exeter was writing ‘manifestos’ and I offered my help towards this one. The one for Grandmothers. I did feel it was pretty pertinent to me. I haven’t shown any of my grandchildren’s photos here on the blog due to privacy reasons but I know that they love and as I do them.

Today, Mother’s Day I also reflect on what it is to hear a little voice say “Grandma….love you”.


Love you too….JR, SM, BJ, EC, HM, RK, EK, MN.

Tell me about your grandmother!


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Joining with Leanne for her link up on Sundays, here.



Why I Am A Teacher. 366/40.

Why I Am A Teacher. 366/40.

  • Each of us has been taught by a trained teacher if we attended a school.
  • Some teachers give us memories of learning we take into our everyday lives. Other teachers may inspire us to ‘go for whatever our dreams are’.
  • Not all teachers are like that, of course, and there may be the one or two we actually don’t want to think back on at all…..however, the majority of teachers can tell you why they are teachers….and why they remain teachers!
  • Even though I am retired from paid work, teaching is part of me. I am a teacher at heart.
  • I understand that the role has changed, and I have been in schools as a classroom teacher in the times of big changes.
  • I’ve led a number of school communities through change in the education systems, the ways in which we must document outcomes and more.
  • Never think for one minute I do not know of the load of work teachers carry and the responsibilities they shoulder to ensure all of the children have the best education outcomes possible.
  • Yet I need to share that the majority of teachers are here for the long haul unless there are underlying matters affecting them. That is another story told in other places. Not here. Today.

I am a teacher because I was born to be one. There I said it.

From My Bookshelf.

From My Bookshelf.

In 2014 when I was a tutor in a University I presented pre-service Masters of Teaching(Primary) students with these stories from teachers. With the permission of those people, I am sharing these with my blog’s readers and the wider community.

Teacher:- J.

I was very fortunate to have wonderful teachers as a primary and high school student. These people taught me that a passion for a subject and for learning is highly contagious. They knew how to engage kids, to allow them to ask questions and feel that their opinion was valued. I guess they became role models for me and I couldn’t wait to become a teacher.Sometimes I feel like the reasons I became a teacher change but lately when I’ve considered this and what I find myself telling people is that just as my family and friends do, teaching feeds my soul! Doing a relieving executive role, I have had to spend time away from my class and I find I really miss the action of a classroom.I love that is changes everyday, that it challenges me, that I get to play a big part in childrens’ lives and that I’m in the privileged position to see them grow and learn before my eyes.There are many parts of teaching that are hard work and demanding so it has to be the ‘coal face’ stuff that keeps you in the job.

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Assistant Principal:- A.

I came to teaching after ditching an unsatisfying former career. Mum said I wanted to be a teacher at age 4. I loved school myself and wanted to be able to help kids, particularly disadvantaged ones, to be able to “not just achieve” as it’s easy for some kids but go beyond what they’re capable of achieving. I am a ‘different’ sort of teacher as I feel many of the things schools and teachers do actually disengage kids. I want kids to have a voice in the direction of their learning.

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Early Childhood Teacher:- N.

I think teaching is a calling. That being said, I became one for a few reasons, some more virtuous than others! I was madly in love with a boy who was in his final year of his teaching degree when I applied. He broke my heart, but the degree stuck! I love learning new things, exploring ideas, thinking, creating, and for me, that’s what being an educator is – giving children a love of learning. I remain a teacher for similar reasons. To be part of the ‘village’ that raises a child – basing my practice now on the UN rights of the child, I’ve evolved as an educator over the years, and that love of learning keeps me inspired and in the classroom.



First Year Teacher:- K.

I have had the opportunity to ‘try out’ a few different jobs, and an entirely different career. Whilst finding success and enjoyment within these jobs I never felt as though they were a perfect fit for me.It was during a holiday that I took the time out to really focus on what I wanted from a job and I found where parts of my work included teaching or training others I was at my happiest.I enjoyed being with children, that my ‘silly’ side was a way that helped me build relationships with them & I decided that I needed to have a role that included nurturing and teaching children and ‘showing them the world’ through education. On my journey to become a teacher, and as a parent, I have seen the profound impact of ‘great’ teachers on children and this has inspired me further to try to find out how to be a ‘great’ teacher. I am a beginning teacher, but I imagine that I will want to remain a teacher because I hope to make a difference. That I continue to see the amazing impact a teacher can have on a child’s wellbeing and education. I hope that I will remain a teacher because I will continue to feel the intrinsic rewards in helping children to find success and be happy being themselves.

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Teacher now Educational Leader:-J.

I wanted to be a teacher from the age of 6. My sister had just become a teacher & I used to want to help her mark papers!!! Mum used to have to distract me! Then when I was 9, my brother became a teacher & I always did everything my brother did!!! However, my sister was a high school English teacher & my brother primary and I was maths. They are both principals now and I have become a leader of schools with DET. I stayed teaching for lots of reasons. Loved it, great satisfaction from making a difference to the students. Sometimes that was academically and sometimes wellbeing.I am often overwhelmed by the need some students have & if I can contribute to improving that in some small way I always will.



Thank you for reading this far…I hope you did! I also hope you found this post one which has ensured that the education of Australia’s children is safe in the hands of a range of teachers like these.


Joining Jess at Essentiallyjess for I Blog On Tuesdays!

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Colour Me Positive Week 3. 366/23.

Colour Me Positive Week 3. 366/23.

As I’ve written before, I am taking part in a year long art journalling challenge. This is from Week 3 where the prompt was about “living life now” and also to add, where we wanted to, some music lyrics. As today is our 45th Wedding Anniversary it is all the more appropriate to post what I made commemorating our first meeting and our first dance all those years ago. Below is my description on the Facebook page for Colour Me Positive.

3/52. Live LIFE. Using our upcoming 45th wedding anniversary (23.1.16) and love of & for music as being part of our lives…since “he walked up to me and asked if I wanted to dance…2 kids and 8 grandkids and careers, houses, ill-health, and more..we are still dancing! Created in my A4 journal on prepped page – frame painted earlier. Added my lettering in 0.8 micron pen, stripes are in Neocolour 11 (wet with waterbrush) for bright effect & added ’45 cut musical notes’. 45 hearts in gellyrolls. LIVE LIFE alright!! Happy Art Journalling everyone!


Happy weekend to you all and especially to the lovely bloggers and linkers from the Ultimate Rabbit Hole found over here.


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Generations. 268/365.

Generations. 268/365.

Many people pride themselves on being part of generational change.

I am part of the group which has become known as the Baby Boomers.

I have children who are known as (I think!) generation X..or is it Y.

Then I have grandchildren some of whom were born before the start of 2000 so they are not millennials..I have no idea of their ‘label.’

What I do know though is how we, the grandparents, have continued to have a loving relationship with these almost grown-up (OK, one is officially adult and has been for some time) grandchildren.

In fact, we were delighted when they asked to visit us for lunch this week. Of course, we said, come on up.

The good thing is that with one car being paid off by the adult grandchild, and with her being a good and sensible driver, she is fine to bring her siblings (and the bf) to see us.

It is very satisfying to have a continued and loving relationship with these three young people we have known since the day our daughter told us she was ‘expecting’.

What’s your generation called?

Denyse xx

SOOOO cold !!

SOOOO cold !! They all have a great sense of…humour and dramatic effect.


I Will Follow Him. 255/365.

I Will Follow Him. 255/365.

There’s a song…and the words, with some embellishment, go like this…

I love him, I love him, I love him

And where he goes I’ll follow, I’ll follow, I will follow him

…and I do and I do…..

Taken today, at Killcare Beach, after we had enjoyed morning tea and taken in the smells, the sights and the noises that is the beauty of the

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Love him…my loving man…met almost 45 years ago and he’s the one I have loved since then….and vice versa.

Denyse xx

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Happy Birthday Horses. 213/365.

Happy Birthday Horses. 213/365.

It’s August 1st.

That’s the Horses’ Birthday.

I think it’s the date given to horse because of the race horse industry. Happy to hear more if you know why.

I also have no idea if this is an Australian thing only. Now I know!

Quote: from today’s Sydney Morning Herald: August 1st is the official birthday for all thoroughbred horses in the southern hemisphere; their distant relatives in the northern hemisphere celebrate on January 1.

So, to celebrate Horses’ Birthday, here’s a few snaps from my album.

We’ve had some interesting grandkids’ stories about horses.

One who is nearly 6 loved horses so much when she was a bit younger she got to ride on a real horse at a riding school as a special treat. She also loved it one morning when we were on a drive called “let’s got for a drive around back of Riverstone for your baby sister to go to sleep” and we found these real beauties on a field. Probably there is a train station commuter set of units going up there soon. 🙁

One who is now almost 8 totally adored the old horse on his other grandparents’ farm and would spend times at our house when he was little ‘calling’ for the horse and having him eat pretend carrots from his hand. 🙂

One, who is now 18, was a Saddle Club devotee and I got ‘sucked in’ to buying the DVDs, horses for role play and more.

This GD….Jess let’s call her, because that IS her name, was also the instigator of “Papa, can you build us a rocking horse?” conversations. So, eventually in 2007, with her sister and brother we ventured to the Rocking Horse man’s workshop where we selected the accessories and Papa got to work. It took some time, and once ready, the three named her:

Flicka Beauty.

She has been part of our home for a while…but when we moved we left her behind for space reasons. Now she is back. And adults can ride her too!

Do you like ‘real’ horses? Can you ride?

Do you like rocking horses?

Denyse xx







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One Perfect Moment. 194/365.

One Perfect Moment. 194/365.

Scene: Putty Beach

Day: Last week

Weather: Cold, Windy, Cloudy

People: Hub, 2 teen grandkids, me.

What: Beach walk, exploring the rock platforms and taking pics.

This: “take a pic of me and Papa, please….”




One Perfect Moment. Yes.Indeed.

Joining with Kylie Purtell on her blog for this link.

Did you have a perfect moment recently?

Denyse xx