Thursday 24th January 2019

Word, Intention or Nothing! 2/51.#LifeThisWeek. 4/2019.

Word, Intention or Nothing! 2/51.#LifeThisWeek. 4/2019.

So, it’s now 14 January 2019 and many New Year’s Resolutions have been made, kept and already broken. I actually do not make them. However, since blogging, I have followed a pattern of making a:

word for the calendar year

Here’s what I did in:

2015: Acceptance. I had NO idea that the year would prove to be much more than I could ever ‘accept’ because at the time I was not equipped with how to deal with my many changes.

2016: FEARless. I would have liked to think this clever play on words would help. In some ways they did, but at other times I found I could not quite shape-up. NB: Am can be a very tough self-critic. Trust popped up somewhere along the way and nope it didn’t resonate either.

 

2017: Kindness. This started well and it certainly made me aware of others’ kindness back to me once I was diagnosed with cancer. I have kept the small design I made for this one and it hangs near my desk.

2018: Started as Brave and then went to Braving and some days later B.O.L.D. took centre stage and I mostly lived this one. Here’s the initial post and a subsequent one.

Sign Above Where I Blog.

My “message to me” bracelet.

2019: What IS it?

I don’t really know…yet. But I have already written and thought about it so much privately.

Maybe it’s because I have had cancer (and it can come back) that I have stopped thinking as positively as I did.

I also add in some health issues that come as a matter of age (70 this year!) and stage and wonder IF I can handle them on top of everything else emotionally and physically in my cancer recovery.

So, I have had ideas, and even some words. I also wrote a bit – a lot – in my journals.

I thought about SELF-CARE a great deal and I know that I can neglect this side of my health and welfare when I go down well-trodden, older paths of what it is like to be ME.

I wrote about that only last September here.

For now, though I would rather not go through the process in just one post as it has been and will continue to be a good old “Work-In-Progress”.

I am going to post what my conclusion is in a second post this week which will be, within itself, a better explanation and understanding of my thought processes! That IS expecting a lot, but as many here know, I tend to tell the truth and open up quite a bit about my struggles.

So, thank you for your patience in advance.

I will have it all here for the next blog post.

Meanwhile, have you decided on a word or intention for 2019 or did you decided “nothing” and leave it at that.

Maybe if I break the code this man is writing I will know more!

I am a bit late to the party for this and I know many of you have published what your decisions are for 2019 earlier.

Denyse.

You can link up something old or new, just come on in. * Please add just ONE post each week! * Feel free to go with the prompt for the week to add your ‘take’ on the prompt. Or not. * Please do stay to comment on my post as I always reply and it’s a bloggy thing to do! * Check out what others are up to by leaving a comment because we all love our comments, right! * Add a link back to this blog in your post somewhere. I don’t have a ‘button’ so a link in text is fine! *Posts deemed by me, the owner of the blog and the link-up, to be unsuitable for my audience will be deleted without notice. * THANK you for linking up today!

Joining Alicia here for Open Slather and Kell here for Mummy Mondays.

Next Week’s Optional Prompt: 3/51. Best Gift Ever. 21/1/19.


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Hello Again. 1/51 #LifeThisWeek. 2/2019.

Hello Again. 1/51 #LifeThisWeek. 2/2019.

Welcome to the New Year..here on the blog.

Thanks for coming on board, reading and commenting along with sharing your posts.

 

Some Bloggy Housekeeping. 

Every Monday (and there are 51 of them in 2019) it’s #LifeThisWeek with optional prompts for bloggers. Some people pick and choose, some do no prompts and others may add a post from ages ago or a new one. All I ask is:

  • just one post each blogger
  • you take a bit of time to comment on others’ blog posts when you can, because you make new connections
  • to comment on my post of the day because I love replying!

I always visit your blog and comment. I usually wait till the end of the link up – Wednesday 5 p.m. where I am – N.S.W. But the link up opens at 5.00 a.m. Mondays.

I have made one change to the line-up of optional prompts which is explained further on.

Happy New Year. Is It For You?

I know that we get quite a bit excited/apprehensive/bored (choose your own word) at the end of one calendar year and the start of another. I felt like this a little about the fact that I am still getting over cancer and that I will be seventy this year and that we  do not yet have a house to call our own

Then I decided to S T O P and appreciate what I have now.

So, for the seven days of January my instagram photo will be based on the word:

Appreciation.

The next 7 days will be about:

Beauty.

After that it will be about:

Connections.

Are you seeing a pattern emerging? Here is a little know (to me) fact: the exact same number of the letters of the English alphabet = half of the weeks of the calendar year. 26!

Trying Some New Ideas in 2019.

I will outline more next week about my ‘word of the year’ and ‘my intention’ for 2019, but for now I wanted to share this:

  • I have joined a private facebook group about using Tarot and Oracle Cards in our daily lives – it is part of a paid course for the first 3 weeks of 2019.
  • I do not really understand much about this but am a willing learner without being totally committed..at this stage.
  • I did an on-line free course (at own pace) with the same person, Susannah Conway who leads the above Daily Guidance) and found it more helpful than I imagined. It turned out that whilst I am new to this but others I know make this an annual commitment
  • I am enjoying taking time to explore, play with and arrange my sets of crystals. I like them from a sensory and beauty perspective and know there are other people who know much more but for me, this is enough
  • I have tried some easy journalling and colouring in other people’s publications not my own and have found it to be meditative and fun.

Practices I Need To Remember.

It is easy in the run of the mill week (yes, even retirees have them) to forget what both refreshes my soul and body. So, to this end, I am going to commit as best I can to this:

  • at least one beach walk a week
  • continuing to enjoy the plants in my pots and care for them, recently due to the weather, I have become the proud owner of 4 pots of varied succulents
  • making and colouring my mandalas. I have been missing doing these and my mind and body tell me, so I need to start up again. I will. I do love it.
  • out every day for at least a coffee. It does not always have to be a treat accompanying it but the ‘hit of caffeine’ once a day is beneficial for my mood and pain
  • dressing with purpose every single day NO matter WHAT and having that photo taken. It is about accountability too. I have put on some weight and remain OK with that but I want to be at ease with my size as it is now.

Looking Forward To This Year.

In keeping with some changes on the optional prompts, because I have  come up with over 1o0 prompts I think I am making one more to add to the repeating  regular ones.

Each 5th Week: Share Your Snaps continues

Each 9th Week: Taking Stock continues

Each 7th Week: a New Optional Prompt: Self-Care. Share Your Story.

Let’s get on with it! Here’s the post #1 for #lifethisweek in 2019. Only 50 to go!!

 

Happy Monday all,

Denyse.

You can link up something old or new, just come on in. * Please add just ONE post each week! * Feel free to go with the prompt for the week to add your ‘take’ on the prompt. Or not. * Please do stay to comment on my post as I always reply and it’s a bloggy thing to do! * Check out what others are up to by leaving a comment because we all love our comments, right! * Add a link back to this blog in your post somewhere. I don’t have a ‘button’ so a link in text is fine! *Posts deemed by me, the owner of the blog and the link-up, to be unsuitable for my audience will be deleted without notice. * THANK you for linking up today!

Joining Alicia here for Open Slather and Kell here for Mummy Mondays.

Next Week’s Optional Prompt: 2/51.  Word/Intention/Nothing for 2019. 14/1/19.


 

 

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Goodbye 2018. 1/2019.

Goodbye 2018. 1/2019.

It’s goodbye, so long, farewell to 2018.

Already it’s 2019 and I am not feeling any different. But wait, what’s that? You are going to be 70 this year?! OH.

But, hey, so what? Many people would envy that, so moving right along!

This is a post I am writing to get me back to the blog in the week before I kick off my #LifeThisWeek series and link-up each Monday. Reminder:

1/51. Hello Again. 7/1/19

2/51. “Word/Intention/Nothing” 2019. 14/1/19

3/51. Best Gift Ever. 21/1/19

4/51. What Is Hope? 28/1/19.

5/51. Share Your Snaps #1. 4/2/19.

6/51. Your Worst Purchase. 11/2/19.

7/51. Self-Care. Share Your Story.#1. 18/2/19.

8/51. Your Favourite Decade. 25/2/19.

9/51. Taking Stock.#1. 4/3/19.

I am sharing the photos I took in the last few weeks as I prepared for the end-of-year posts and beginning of next year. I like to walk on the beach for keeping my mindfulness practice up and the wonder of being by the sea.

 

I also like to visit the bridge near Mackenzie Reserve at Budgewoi to do some reflecting. It has been out of action while they s l o w l y repaired this beloved footbridge and attached new sleepers to the bridge itself.

I love time to reflect, to appreciate, to practise gratitude and also to get out into the wider world. It does me good.

Every.Single.Time.

Let’s move on, with life as it is and with what’s to come, and welcome in 2019.

 

 

My best wishes to you all in 2019.

Denyse.

Leanne at Deep Fried Fruit is leading the Link-Up start to 2019 here on Thursday 3 January 2019.

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We Made It! 52/52.#LifeThisWeek 2018.134.

We Made It! 52/52.#LifeThisWeek 2018.134.

Thank you all.

Yes, we made it. Each Monday to come here and read, join in with a blog post link up and comment.

Some of my blogging friends have had big changes in their lives: I know there have been travel experiences far and wide around this world of ours. I do also know that some of the bloggers have struggled through life transitions of job changes, moving house, starting new courses, having health issues to overcome and losing loved family members. Sadly.

There is no doubt in my mind, this community here, and ones where I also join in here, are living, breathing and caring ones and I am very grateful for the connections. Always. In 2018 a much loved link up ceased…so I for one am hoping these lovely link ups continue into 2019.

Open Slather with Alicia http://onemotherhen.blogspot.com.au on Mondays and Mummy Mondays with Kelly http://allmumsaid.com.au

Midlife Share the Love Linky on Wednesdays with Leanne: http://crestingthehill.com.au Sue:  http://www.sizzlingtowardssixty.com.au

Lovin Life Linky hosted on Thursdays with Leanne http://deepfriedfruit.com.auand friends

 

Now, for the round-up of blog posts for 2018 on Mondays for Life This Week. I was going to use my teacher-voice and call it an award…but it’s not. I looked at the posts from each month and checked the comment numbers as an indication of higher engagement via the comments…as you know Denyse Whelan Blogs To Connect!

January 2018.

Intention or Word for 2018. 16 links.

Sign Above Where I Blog.

February 2018.

Taking Stock 1. 17 links.

Night before 3rd surgery I walked up to COBLH.

March 2018.

Out My Window I See. 15 links.

HAPPY me, with a smile I almost recognise…in my art room.

April 2018.

School Holiday Memories. 11 links.

The signpost…to where we used to live 1971-1972. House is gone.

May 2018.

My Biggest Fear. 16 links.

Writing this in the sand did not reduce my fear but it did make me think about why I was/am fearful at times.

 

June 2018.

What I Will Never See Again. 14 links.

Loved my art-ing times with my pre-school aged grandkids

 

July 2018.

Taking Stock. 23 links.

Spreading the news of Beyond Five & Head & Neck cancer awareness with my local Federal MP.

 

August 2018.

Famous People I’ve Met. 18 links.

Photo with then NSW Governor Marie Bashir. Taken by former NSW Premier, Barrie O’Farrell.

September 2018.

Have You Ever? 12 links.

Excited not only to be part of #celebratingwomen but to be quoted in the book!

 

October 2018.

What I Have Learned Lately. 15 links.

What a wonderful experience it was to be able to smile again!

 

November 2018.

Share Your Snaps. 15 links.

Waves. The Beach!

 

December 2018.

Taking Stock. 18 links.

My ‘word’ for 2018.

Thank you all for visiting, commenting, reading, viewing, following and linking up in 2018.

#LifeThisWeek starts for 2019 on Monday 7 January:

1/51. Hello Again. 7/1/19

2/51. “Word/Intention/Nothing” 2019.. 14/1/19

In the meantime I will be making up some new prompts.

The GOOD news is Share Your Snaps will continue every 5th week

And, good old Taking Stock, around each 9th week.

See you there!

Denyse.

You can link up something old or new, just come on in. * Please add just ONE post each week! * Feel free to go with the prompt for the week to add your ‘take’ on the prompt. Or not. * Please do stay to comment on my post as I always reply and it’s a bloggy thing to do! * Check out what others are up to by leaving a comment because we all love our comments, right! * Add a link back to this blog in your post somewhere. I don’t have a ‘button’ so a link in text is fine! *Posts deemed by me, the owner of the blog and the link-up, to be unsuitable for my audience will be deleted without notice. * THANK you for linking up today!

Joining Alicia here for Open Slather and Kell here for Mummy Mondays.

Next Year’s Life This Week commences on Monday 7 January with: Hello Again, as the optional prompt.


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