Wednesday 22nd February 2017

My Week 7 Intention. Take a Break. 2017.24.

My Week 7 Intention. Take a Break. 2017.24.

I have had a bit of a  rough week because I am trying too hard.

Yes, this is something that I do not realise until it’s almost too late.

It’s been a rough week on the health front with a nasty IBS flare. I can never really explain the why of IBS for me but I do get upset when the what of IBS impacts my life. The episodes meant I could not travel even to a needed appointment. It gets me down.

As a result of that, I try to fix things. I try too hard because that is who I am and I need to slow myself down and be more gentle and kindly towards myself.

I do not ’cause’ the IBS but I still have to live with its consequences and its effects on my confidence and demeanour.

I can add the HEATWAVE has affected me too as I dread the onset of extreme weather and as a worrier I think ‘what would we do if the power went off?’

So, I am giving myself a week off…from learning to manage my health symptoms and effects to….taking a more relaxed approach to life in retirement as it is for me!

My Intention for Week 7 is to give myself a break and take one! To do less learning and stop trying hard. To enjoy more moments that are about becoming absorbed in something creative or just being.

The way the past week was did not help my Week 6 intention of react less and respond more because my inner tension levels were higher. So, that’s OK too. I know what I need to do…and that is LESS..this week coming up!

How are you going?

Do you sometime try too hard and not realise until later?

Tell me more!

Denyse.

UPDATED as of Thursday 16 February. Since publishing this on Sunday some things have changed for the better…I have been listening to an amazing program about ‘helping your nervous illness’ (as she named anxiety back in the 1960s) by Dr Claire Weekes. I cannot explain without a whole blog post but I can tell you her messages are exactly what I needed to hear and understand. 

 

Joining Leanne’s lovin life linky here each Thursday. Thanks to her lovely team too I am really enjoying your comments!

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Fabulous Frangipanis. 2017.19.

Fabulous Frangipanis. 2017.19.

I declare that I love frangipanis ….on the tree.

They are delightful, smell sweetly and look a treat.

Then they fall…their fabulousness decays…and they become rubbish and need to be swept away before someone slips and falls. Life with frangipanis!

We used to live in a hotter area of Sydney around 45 minutes drive from the coast. We did end up buying and nurturing a frangipani back in 2011 when I renewed my love for them. It remained small but it did produce the lovely flowers. Not many but enough.

In my family’s house on the coast, Dad ended up with several frangipanis which ‘took off’ and were from cuttings from an old friend’s tree in Wollongong. So, it appears, in the right setting and climate they thrive!

We moved to this house on the NSW Central Coast late 2015. It has a HUGE old frangipani tree in the back garden. I am not sure, but it could be two trees in one. What I do know is that we had to cut in back a bit to enjoy what plants were hidden underneath! We took some of those cuttings and they’re in pots and in other garden spots now.

This summer I have notice more frangipanis that are different to ours around this local area.

I went for a walk for the purposes of this post to photograph them. The colour and size differences were interesting.

What was the same, however, was the mess they leave when they fall.

Frangipanis! Beauties which give and give while they’re on the trees.

They give me the reason to exercise when it’s time to sweep them up after they’ve fallen.

What’s your view about frangipanis?

Do you have them where you live?

Have you ever grown one?

Denyse.

 

I hope my photography friends enjoy these: Link ups are here:

Trish, Sue, Steph and Jen.

On the weekend I link up with Sammie and friends for the Ultimate Rabbit Hole here.

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Australia. 2017.15.

Australia. 2017.15.

Yesterday was Australia Day. It is remembering that on 26 January 1788 a white settlement commenced within Sydney Harbour at Port Jackson. It is close to where Circular Quay is, the ferry terminals and just around from the Opera House to the east, and Sydney Harbour Bridge to the west.

However, it is not a day of celebration for many Australians, the original Australians, who regard this as a day of sorrow. My thoughts are that Australia needs to change to date to reconcile with all who are Australian. However, this is very much a contentious option at present.

I have therefore gone with a traditional (Anglo if you will) view of my country. Australia so very well captured in the essence of this poem by Dorothea Mackellar. The photos which follow are mine. Again I have tried to capture the essence of my country.

 

My Country
The love of field and coppice
Of green and shaded lanes,
Of ordered woods and gardens
Is running in your veins.
Strong love of grey-blue distance,
Brown streams and soft, dim skies
I know, but cannot share it,
My love is otherwise.

I love a sunburnt country,
A land of sweeping plains,
Of ragged mountain ranges,
Of droughts and flooding rains.
I love her far horizons,
I love her jewel-sea,
Her beauty and her terror
The wide brown land for me!

The stark white ring-barked forests,
All tragic to the moon,
The sapphire-misted mountains,
The hot gold hush of noon,
Green tangle of the brushes
Where lithe lianas coil,
And orchids deck the tree-tops,
And ferns the warm dark soil.

Core of my heart, my country!
Her pitiless blue sky,
When, sick at heart, around us
We see the cattle die
But then the grey clouds gather,
And we can bless again
The drumming of an army,
The steady soaking rain.

Core of my heart, my country!
Land of the rainbow gold,
For flood and fire and famine
She pays us back threefold.
Over the thirsty paddocks,
Watch, after many days,
The filmy veil of greenness
That thickens as we gaze …

An opal-hearted country,
A wilful, lavish land
All you who have not loved her,
You will not understand
though Earth holds many splendours,
Wherever I may die,
I know to what brown country
My homing thoughts will fly.

Dorothea Mackellar

 

Fig tree in Sydney. Close to the harbour.

Manly Beach at sunrise. Manly was named after an Aboriginal person because of the ‘manly’ appearance. I grew up near here.

The Three Sisters. Aboriginal legends abound about these ‘ladies’ located in the heritage listed Blue Mountains beyond Sydney.

The Jamison Valley. Part of the Blue Mountains. In the early 1800s white explorers Blaxland, Wentworth and Lawson made their way across here.

Semi-rural Sydney scenes but more likely to be housing estates now and into the future.

Magical morning at the Central Coast.

Iconic Sydney. Ferries, Circular Quay and the Harbour Bridge. This is Port Jackson and where the first white settlement occurred.

Essence of the coast of Australia!

My now local area. Wyong River. Original land owners the Darkinjung people.

As Aussie as it comes..the bush and a track leading somewhere…

Walk by the Parramatta River in NSW and read these sculptures. All denote the original and then white settlement of the earliest founded place in NSW (other than Sydney)

Our wonderful coast…we are a country bound by oceans. This is the Pacific Ocean/Tasman Sea as it reaches east to New Zealand.

Thank you Australia for all you have given me in my life.

Denyse.

Joining photography friends who blog here:

Trish, Steph, Sue and Jen.

 

 

 

 

 

On the weekend I visit the Ultimate Rabbit Hole here with Sammie and 3 bloggers who also host the link up!

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Norwest Sydney Remembered. 2017.11.

Norwest Sydney Remembered. 2017.11.

We moved from our country teaching posts to Sydney in 1978. We were fortunate to be able to buy a new house and land package at Kellyville, on the fringe of Castle Hill and almost semi-rural area for $44,600. (today’s value: $900k) We raised our two children here, and then in 1993 succumbed to the lure of a new house, and an easy-to-obtain mortgage to buy land at the newly created Bella Vista (suburb) and build an architect designed house. All for around $400,000.

It was wonderful being almost pioneers on the old land that was inhabited firstly by the original owners, and then by the early settlers including John and Elizabeth MacArthur. In fact, the house we built looked up to the original Bella Vista farm (still there in part for historic purposes and appreciation of current citizens) so it always felt like being a part of history too.

Over the years much has already happened to the area, see the timeline here and we bought our land in 1993 and moved to the house in January 1994.

1801

Seven Hills Farm

Pre-1788

Aboriginal custodianship of the Cumberland Plain by the Darug people

1788

European settlement and exploration of the Cumberland plain commenced

1799-1801

Seven Hills was sub-divided by the Crown into a series of grants to free settlers including 500 acres was transferred to James Robertson

1801

Stock Farm was sold to John Macarthur along with 1,250 sheep. Bella Vista Farm Park still contains the historic homestead and farm buildings with a single avenue of bunya Pines and is open for public recreation.

1949

North Sydney Brick and Tile Company Limited (Norbrik)

Norbrik purchased a total of a thousand acres of land with part being used for their brick and tile manufacturing plant which operated on part of the site from 1956 to 2002.

1980′s

Norbrik investigated alternate uses for the site and came up with the concept of a business park where people worked, lived and played.

1987

Baulkham Hills Shire Council and the New South Wales State government rezoned the land as Employment land.

1992

First Stage of Norwest Business Park

The first large-scale business park in Australia of some 377ha was brought to the market. Subdivision works were completed for Stage 1 and construction of buildings commenced in the early 90′s with Australia Post, Cathay Pacific and Hillsong Church acquiring land and commencing construction in 1993.

The first residential development took place in the Bella Vista Village precinct.

SOURCE: http://www.norwestassociation.com.au/history/

We sold our house in 1997 for $474,000 (today’s value: $1.5million) and moved to a suburb across Old Windsor Road, Glenwood, which had been a large dairy farming property. We purchased this house and land package for around $300,000.(today’s value:$950k)

Over the decades housing sprang up on both sides of Old Windsor Road as did the multitude of businesses and other commercial enterprises such as schools, hospitals, churches and retirement places. Much changed in that time and the establishment of a ‘centre’ with a man-made lake gave the area some quiet spaces and pleasant areas to view and rest.

I often walked around the Lake at Norwest Shops. Grandchildren who accompanied me over the years enjoyed feeding the ducks. This was a fun thing to do but sadly those ducks were over-fed and the waterways added many fish of dubious species as well such as carp.

It was in 2014 I took these photos. We have not lived nearby since then and I do know that changes have been made, of course, with even more buildings for both business and residential purposes. There is a rail system being added to the area to hopefully reduce to huge road traffic component of living away from good public transport. However, all in all, the area no longer held any appeal for us after all the years so we have moved on!

Family and friends who remain do so because of location, work and school/study commitments, relationships and more…. and because it’s Sydney!! We have retired to the Central Coast of NSW about 90 minutes drive north.

Do you know the history of where you live?

Are you familiar with this part of Sydney?

Let me know more in the comments!

Denyse.

Joining photography link up friends here:

Jen, SueSteph and Trish

On the weekend I add my post to the Ultimate Rabbit Hole here with Sammie and Paula and new friends too.

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San Francisco DID Steal My Heart. 2017.7.

San Francisco DID Steal My Heart. 2017.7.

Eleven years ago this week I visited San Francisco for 2 nights and almost 3 days.

It was one of those overseas trips where I tried to cram in as much as I could as I would never be sure I would be back. My first trip and my last so far! I wrote about it here.  I was a solo traveller. By choice!

I chose to travel to Hawaii first where I stayed for some nights, then across to the Mainland of USA.

The 3rd city I visited there was the delightful San Francisco.

My blogging friend K, is an expat Aussie living there now and when she posted a pic on Instagram about a wet day in SF, I was reminded of MY wet day for a morning tour. This is her blog and it’s full of cool facts, pics and stories about her life in the US of A.

Here are the photos. They are not great quality as they were taken from a bus AND it was wet!

Did I mention that??

Have you visited San Francisco?

What are your memories?

I thought it was like Sydney and I loved it!

On another occasion I will write about the tour to Alcatraz. It was both amazing and terrifying!

Denyse.

Joining with photography friends here:

Trish

Steph

Jen

Sue

and on the weekend with the Ultimate Rabbit Hole crew where Sammie gets the news out fast along with Karin and the newly-wed Paula!

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What Are You Thankful For? 366/340.

What Are You Thankful For? 366/340.

Where do I start?

Where would you start?

What has got me thinking is that 2016 has not been a wonderfully great year on a few levels yet I have much to be thankful for because of just that!

I am thankful for:

  • continuing a wonderful relationship (through sickness and health, better and worse, richer and poorer) with my husband since 1970
  • a comfortable place to live in even though it is not ‘ours’ it has much of ‘us’ in it and until we can buy again, we are happy to stay.
  • knowing that my family is grown up and self-sufficient and no longer rely on us for support other than that of family love and care
  • my learning over the past twelve months about what it is to be human

There is more and I am sure I could write and write…but I am going to end this post with one more thankful.

I am thankful for the blogging community and the ways in which bloggers share and support each other. It is wonderful.

Link ups play a big part in this connection. This week has seen a big change over here for I Blog On Tuesdays. Leanne’s link up today is one I love and support wholeheartedly. I am also thankful that my link up on Mondays is achieving success with bloggers joining in weekly.

That said, I will not be taking a bloggy break and the link up remains open each Monday – Thursday.

Next week’s {optional}  prompt (last one for 2016) is Appreciation on Monday 26 December. 

And as promised here is the list of the prompts for the first 9 weeks of 2017. I will add them to the Home Page here too.

Mondays: Link Up: Life This Week. #ltw.

  1. 2 Jan: A Favourite Post from 2016.
  2. 9 Jan: My Word for 2017.
  3. 16 Jan: Your Holidays At Home.
  4. 23 Jan: Best Tips For Living in a Shared Household.
  5. 30 Jan: Back to Routine.
  6. 6 Feb: What’s Enough Money?
  7. 13 Feb: LOVE.
  8. 20 Feb: A Pet Story.
  9. 27 Feb: Taking Stock.

 

 

Thanks Leanne for the link up. Have a wonderful Christmas!

Warm wishes to every reader and commenter here too!

I am thankful for each and every one of you.

Denyse.

 

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2016 Is Slip Sliding Away. 366/336.

2016 Is Slip Sliding Away. 366/336.

On 1st January 2016 I vowed to continue to write daily posts for 2016…which would end the year with 366 posts.

On Mondays I blogged about “Life This Week”.

Tuesdays “Education”

Wednesdays “Health and Mindfulness”

Thursdays “Stories from Life’s Experiences”

Fridays “Photography”

Saturdays “Creativity & Art”

Sundays “More!”

I blogged every single day, on a new topic each day, until the beginning of November.

I decided that I had fulfilled a personal goal of writing but it no longer had to be every single day. I wrote about that here.

Some link ups I joined over the week also changed. Blogging is changing for some people as they return to work or take on different roles. I get that but I do love a link up to find new blogs and for bloggers to find me.

I loved it when Leanne started her Lovin’ Life linky on a Sunday and I got to meet even more bloggers! Now I am joining in here each Thursday with her crew helping out each week.

Raychael over here is instrumental in supporting bloggers and link ups each week and has a Facebook page for sharing. Thank you, Raych.

In September Kirsty announced that she was retiring her much-loved “I Must Confess” Monday link up. She is specialising now in her role as parent and advocate for children with autism. Her blog is a wealth of knowledge.

It was for me a sad time as I always enjoyed the link ups and the prompts. What to do? I gave it some thought, chatted to others including Kirsty and decided to try my own link up.

Taking my Monday topic of Life This Week, I gave it a shot as the name for a Monday link up and I was humbled and delighted to see a significant number of blogging friends join in! Thank you all so much!

As of next week, I will have been running my Monday link up for 15 weeks. Wow.

I also asked some questions here about how bloggers who linked up liked the option of prompts and so on, and they concluded if it was a good fit for them and they got some ideas then they would use the prompts. Otherwise, they’d still link up. Thanks everyone.

Next week on Monday 19 December the {optional} prompt is “this time next week”. The last{optional} prompt for the year on Monday 26 December is “gratitude”. The link up will continue each week into 2017 even though I know some bloggers take a break. I WILL be here!!

Does it feel like 2016 is slipping away quickly now?

Will you be glad to see it over?

I am not sure sure but I dont think I want to live it again, if you know what I mean!

I hope you come and link up on Mondays.

I love seeing my blogging friends, old and new, there too.

Denyse.

Joining Leanne’s link up here today.

 

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What Is A Job These Days? 366/327.

What Is A Job These Days? 366/326.

When I thought about this response to this question more answers came to me (and my brains trust a.k.a. husband)  than I was ready for.

wordle_jobsearchhelpA job is:

  • a task
  • a role
  • a profession
  • a position
  • an occupation
  • work
  • a career
  • employment
  • volunteering

Yes, but what more does that entail?

  • training
  • experience
  • being engaged as an employee
  • working full-time
  • working part-time
  • working flexibly
  • working outside the home
  • working at home
  • working in a group or company
  • working solo
  • being an employer
  • being paid
  • not being paid

My brains trust and I have finished. Do you have any more ideas?

Why then am I pondering this? Next Monday’s “Life This Week” #ltw13 {optional prompt} is

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My First Paid Job.

Because I started working for money waaaaay back there was no images for what I did. However, do come along next week on MONDAY 5 December, and link up (or not) but come and see what it was that I did in the mid 1960s!

Interesting topic, this work thing! These days work can mean things to different people.

What is your current work?

I know that there will be many answers!

Thank you for joining in the conversation.

Denyse.

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Joining the link up on Thursdays called Lovin Life with Leanne here and she has so many types of work I think her response would be a ‘blog post’ in itself!

 

 

 

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